ok there is something wronge with the sql database access
the php script outputs
"Warning: MySQL Connection Failed: Access denied for user: 'root@localhost' (Using password: YES) in /home/graal/webs/graal2001/htdocs/user.php on line 83
Warning: Supplied argument is not a valid MySQL-Link resource in /home/graal/webs/graal2001/htdocs/user.php on line 84
Unable to select database"
and you should also add in a logout button (or add most of the same links you have when your not logged in to the side also, like the links with the rules and stuff)