Dissappearing items

[Borgie]

Well, i had a Orc helmet of ogma +3, i put it down in my house and it dissapeared without a warning
Dont tell me that i am a *******, but this is absolutely NOT good and fair :grrr:
First of all i would like to have it restored...
How the heck am i supposed to know that this thing just goes poof???
Second it would be a good idea to change that (dont make them dissapear or add some kind of warning)
sorry for being a bit unfriendly but i am PISSED!!! :grrr: :grrr: :grrr: