Something that always baffled me, I know for some other mmorpgs I've played, people wrote 3rd party plugins for the client, we even had plugins to chat to people in AIM from inside the game, and plugins that tracked any items that were place on the ground nearby, and plugins that were able to setup queues for keys, like, if you wanted to do "v ^ > v S" you could map that combo to a key and it'd input it when you hit the mapped key, but obviously that's the difference between the graal community being largely made up of elementary school students, and junior high students, as opposed to being more largely populated by competant people.
If you want to talk to people on all servers, do some research, find out what is and isn't possible, and if there is a way to view the playerlist from all servers, crack open your text editor and get to work.
Advice to anyone not already among this group:
Learn a language, become proficient, and make **** happen.