Good news - I got the ftp working, but i had to go download a new ftp program.. it wouldn't accept Bulletproof ftp for some reason so i got iglooftp and it works fine.
Bad new - The crazy european server computer keeps crashing so Teir'Dal and Unholy Nation are both up and down server.. there one minute, gone the next.
If it keeps up I may just have Stefan transfer Teir'Dal to the old server.
