Fine, I'll answer using at least some of my brain
1) No matter what Ice Pick does, he will get away with everything. We knew this especially back in June/July when he was at the peak of stealing levels from other servers and GFX etc. Even if he deleted Graal, Stefan wouldn't care, he would get away with it. Stefan has never commented on Ice Pick and he never will
2) Your server was really fun to start out with, but all we can do now is fish and read books. If you ask me, there will be no roleplaying server on Graal that will work. You can't role-play when there are only about 5-10 people on. I even find it difficult to do so on Providence, the most populated p2p server other than new main. The only true chance I see is Yoshi's PW Doragen Koden, I have heard nothing but good things from it
3) If the staff is so good why are you already having FTP problems? Obviously, a great staff would be able to co-ordinate their work effectively and efficiently, distribute the workload and make regular updates. A fun to workj with staff maybe, a well organized staff (if your having so many problems as you claim you are) that you do not have