[Pimmeh]

I think that I speak for all of us that we feel sorry for you and that we all will support you in this time of sadness and loss.
On my part, I hope that you can have a fitting funeral or cremation for your father and that he will be remembered by his loved ones for a long time.
I wish you and your mother exceedingly much luck and I hope that she (your mother) will be able to overcome this horrible disease.
Enough of my ranting.
Good luck