A soft delete post look like this:
http://forums.graalonline.com/forums...t=65710&page=2
8th post from the bottom, post by Vulcan.
A soft deleted thread is here, 3rd thread from the bottom:
http://forums.graalonline.com/forums...5&daysprune=-1
You should be able to see it, assuming you have the same usergroup as everyone else.