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Originally Posted by ZanderX
As someone who has been in your position multiple times (and with much more gravity to the situation), I can say that that is a very, very stupid position to have.
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Can you elaborate on why that is a very stupid position to have?
I am sorry, but in my opinion, Zurk doesn't work well with others. He may have done okay when he led the Astri because in the end he was able to ensure he got to do things his way, but he is not very flexible and takes it quite personally when his ideas are not always used.
I don't blame people for having strong convictions, but when they actively become disruptive everytime they don't get their way I take that as more trouble than its worth and that they don't work well in groups.
He can contribute to Dustari by making suggestions and such and contributing to revising our ideas of how to do things here in the forums, but to be an active member of the kingdom takes more than that, and every time he has been one he does not work out.
What bothers me is when people can't take responsibility for their actions, and its Zurk's fault, not Zoe's and not mine that he is not well received anymore in game. I did offer him a position in Dustari that was a fairly high rank, a type of leadership role, he didn't want to because we were allied with Zormite whom he considers illegitimate due to their changes since 2k1.
I don't hold it against him he didn't want to return to Dustari then, but if someone takes a stand and says they won't be a member for specific reasons, they can't turn around and say they are a member and no one can change that. People have to pick a lane at some point.