Kay I'm sick of all this argument...takes so long to read
briefly:
-dustari is dying, I admit that. I kind of feel bad for quitting now (not that it makes a difference, just that a lot of old members left Dustari or GK completely, since there's nothing to do in GK in general)
-powergamers are everywhere, not just in Dustari. RPing wars does work o.o I remember back when Aftershock was king, how everybody helped with the preparation of war (the woman helped with materials, potions, cept the femail soldiers) but I guess nowadays you can't/dont have to do that anymore because the fast people can just go by dungeon =X yes that kills the fun in preparing..
-um Zurk, I'm just going to be honest here. You DID tell me that she pissed you off and you want to get back at her for that

though at the time I thought you were just joking or whatever. But I appreciate you wanting to help but it's just that stop bringing up stuff like about your lands and how we owe you a crown or that type of stuff
I have a suggestion, don't know if it's a good one or bad one but: Instead of having one or two selected individuals (king, queen) with the most say and power, have like a council, like a group of people who are not all powergamers and are active, wise people. Those people should have a lot of power and say too, that way if one person goes inactive, there are still 'backups', and so their decisions won't be over-ruled by just one person. It's also a way of getting more ideas and perspective in.
^that way, people that want to help, join that council! It's like like getting rid of any leader or anybody... just getting more HELP from others. it also lessens the stress and responsibilities that Ana quit for