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MysticX2X 04-23-2007 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by DustyPorViva (Post 1302256)
And what did he do to put himself in that situation when he made a new account?

Well as far as this goes, clumptytail isnt jigga according to clumptytail. And he did it because he had such a bad reputatin for his constant server ideas that always fail.

DustyPorViva 04-23-2007 03:38 PM

Yes, we know why he did it.
The question is, why wasn't he allowed to do so before being ragged on by everyone? Then being laughed at, "haha, you wasted your money on a new account, we wouldn't let you try to start over again!"

Darlene159 04-23-2007 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticX2X (Post 1302255)
LOL He put himself into that situation. You should look back on threads by him.

He was new to the forums, and he didn't post the way some of the community thought he should, and therefore run off, and made to feel that he had to make another account and try again. This should not be done, and members should not be made to feel this way.

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Originally Posted by DustyPorViva (Post 1302256)
And what did he do to put himself in that situation when he made a new account?

As I said above. The worst part of someone trying to start fresh when they are getting attacked is that staff with RC will tell the whole community that they checked IP's. This is totally wrong, and an invasion of privacy. I am trying to put a stop to this.

Ravenblade1979 04-23-2007 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Darlene159 (Post 1302263)
He was new to the forums, and he didn't post the way some of the community thought he should, and therefore run off, and made to feel that he had to make another account and try again. This should not be done, and members should not be made to feel this way.

I talked to him on GK..he really didn't seem to care. I should have mentioned when i steered him towards the forum to look for people to help where he should have went. My bad.

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Originally Posted by Darlene159
As I said above. The worst part of someone trying to start fresh when they are getting attacked is that staff with RC will tell the whole community that they checked IP's. This is totally wrong, and an invasion of privacy. I am trying to put a stop to this.

Weird that is wrong.

Bl0nkt 04-23-2007 04:27 PM

I'm not new, I don't know the rules, but it's common ****ing sense that if you're gonna hire for a server you need to make it seem appealing. God damn.

Darlene159 04-23-2007 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Bl0nkt (Post 1302269)
I'm not new, I don't know the rules, but it's common ****ing sense that if you're gonna hire for a server you need to make it seem appealing. God damn.

it is also common sense to not attack people on the forums just because you don't like the way they post, or they don't follow the rules. It is common sense that the moderators can deal with these issues, and the members do not need to flame them.

Ravenblade1979 04-23-2007 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Darlene159 (Post 1302270)
it is also common sense to not attack people on the forums just because you don't like the way they post, or they don't follow the rules. It is common sense that the moderators can deal with these issues, and the members do not need to flame them.

Suprised you haven't closed the topic yet..seems to be going nowhere..lol.

Inverness 04-23-2007 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Andy0687 (Post 1302232)
Origonal Quote which interested me.

Should graalians arugue and fight and insult one another? YES.

Why? Because without that, this game wouldnt be worth what you have to pay for it, over half the novelty is logging on and pissing some random people off because they cant stand their 2d avatar being talked down to.

Maybe the colors are wrong, the hat is ugly, they look all dark and emo, they suck at events, they suck period. They have 5000 hours, they cant pk worth a damn, who cares.

Telling people how bad they suck and watching them flip out like your opinion is the only one that matters even though they say it dosent is awesome

I love it.

This is probably why I don't like you very much. And I don't care about your opinion of that.

Googi 04-23-2007 11:48 PM

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Originally Posted by elite_master (Post 1302154)
"hey, we oldbies. WE like gang. WE own place ya? ok shut up let us talk"

How about giving some examples of that happening? These are the Graal forums and we will take advantage of almost any opportunity to take each other on, but "oldbies" aren't somehow immune to having this happen to them. Your signup date means a bit, but it doesn't mean much. The "group" that you're in (staff "group", Kaimetsu "group", chaos propagating "group", etc.) is way more important than how long you've been around.

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Originally Posted by Ravenblade1979 (Post 1302273)
Suprised you haven't closed the topic yet..seems to be going nowhere..lol.

"I don't like the thread" is not a valid reason for closing it. "Raven doesn't like the thread" isn't one either. Nor is "the thread is going nowhere" (and just what, exactly, does a thread that's going "somewhere" look like?) This discussion does not violate any rules.

kia345 04-24-2007 12:30 AM

Although within the next few posts it'll be a flame war

Googi 04-24-2007 12:36 AM

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Originally Posted by kia345 (Post 1302433)
Although within the next few posts it'll be a flame war

There is no war here, unless you have brought it.

Andy0687 04-24-2007 05:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Darlene159 (Post 1302248)
I am talking about the forums. New people should be able to come here for help, advice, constructive critisism, but they can't do that without getting talked down to, and attacked.

Fair enough, I agree as far as this goes.

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Originally Posted by zokemon (Post 1302253)
That isn't the intention of the game though and is certainly not why I or many many other people play it.

I play to script, I love scripting and when I learned Gscript it put a whole new breath into my otherwise derailed life and helped to keep me away from bad things. I dont play to agitate people, although I find it a bonus that some people take little things in a game so seriously. (Telling someone for example, how bad they suck at an event, will eventually show some funny results).

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What is this called? Immaturity, my friend.
There is nothing wrong with being immature and having fun some of the time, and I guarantee my actions on the game dont reflect my actions in real life, so I dont know how you could make the comparison.

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that such behaviour should really be looked down upon by the entire Graal public.
And at the end of the day Myself and People such as myself, who play the game to have fun, and do have fun, will continue to do as we do. If people look down on it, thats fine, thats why Games come with an ignore feature and a GP Team. As long as im keeping it within respectable bounds then what is the problem?

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Sure you can act that way, but it doesn't (or shouldn't) warrant any kind of respect from other mature individuals.
I find myself to be a highly respectable individual when the situation warrants it, and I dont instigate with people to get respect as ive said before, its just funny when you do some things to watch the reactions of people, such as below.

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Originally Posted by Inverness (Post 1302274)
This is probably why I don't like you very much. And I don't care about your opinion of that.

Thats cool I dont remember saying I was here for your approval, or asking you what you thought, because I could care less. I promise I wont get any less sleep because someone dosent like me.

Actually you should probably take a number and get in line, other people were here first, no cuts.

oinknessx 04-24-2007 05:44 AM

Hey, I myself admitted I sucked at those events, so if you would have said so as well, I probably wouldn't have been TOO offended. :)

brock128 04-24-2007 10:37 PM

I'm going to ignore the random drama/flamewar/whatever because it's boring.

All I can say is that every forum should take a page out of SA's book and ban people for any sign of stupidity.

oinknessx 04-24-2007 10:59 PM

If you banned everyone who showed a sign of stupidity, there'd be nobody left! Everyone makes mistakes. You've got to show compassion to the inexperienced. I think that's what this thread is all about... :)

zokemon 04-24-2007 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Andy0687 (Post 1302574)
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Fair enough.

Inverness 04-25-2007 01:17 AM

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Originally Posted by oinknessx (Post 1302753)
If you banned everyone who showed a sign of stupidity, there'd be nobody left! Everyone makes mistakes. You've got to show compassion to the inexperienced. I think that's what this thread is all about... :)

If everyone thought like you the world would be a better place.

Jacktheripperman 04-25-2007 01:31 AM

Ahem... I believe my signature speaks wonders here >.>
*braces for impact*

Andy0687 04-25-2007 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by oinknessx (Post 1302577)
Hey, I myself admitted I sucked at those events, so if you would have said so as well, I probably wouldn't have been TOO offended. :)

Yeah but you have to admit, when I got you in charge, you were PISSED.

I even ran into the other room cause I could just imagine you sitting there screaming at your screen and I didnt want to instigate any further :D but you followed me and let me have it rofl.

Darklux 04-27-2007 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Darlene159 (Post 1301873)
Unfortunately, some members of the community are harsh with new members. The thread you speak of is quite tame compared to a lot of threads I have seen.
I do not see anything aggressive in what Sam said.
There is really no excuse for not knowing the rules of a forum before you post.
There have been much worse threads of the community "tearing a member apart".
I have complained about this many times before.

1) The community needs to be a little more understanding and helpful to new members.

2) New (and old) members should familiarize themselves with the rules of the forum befrore they post.


Darlene, you cant expect of a young child to run a marathon too.
Most people don't read rules, thery just open the page once, say "aha fine..." close the browsertab and are happy with it.

Its frustrating for a new member - and graalonline needs new members - if a critic is harsh like this for no reason. Theres a nice way to tell your criticism, without ripping the new person apart.

My example:

"Hello xxx!

Its nice that you are interested in hosting a Server on this nice game, but you have to follow certain rules which are xxx and xxx.
If you follow these rules iam sure that your chances improve to get nice people for your server."

But not:

"Omg follow rules, you criminal! Closed! Never try writing here again!"

Do you really expect a member to stay in the community if you behave like this? I wouldn't expect it.

- Lux

Darlene159 04-27-2007 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Darklux (Post 1303570)
Most people don't read rules, thery just open the page once, say "aha fine..." close the browsertab and are happy with it.

I know what most people do, and there is no excuse for it.

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My example:

"Hello xxx!

Its nice that you are interested in hosting a Server on this nice game, but you have to follow certain rules which are xxx and xxx.
If you follow these rules iam sure that your chances improve to get nice people for your server."

But not:

"Omg follow rules, you criminal! Closed! Never try writing here again!"

Do you really expect a member to stay in the community if you behave like this? I wouldn't expect it.

- Lux
I haven't seen any moderator act like this. I have always seen them closing the thread, and asking them to read the rules. I haven't seen any moderator being rude about it as you have stated there. That example is something I have seen quite frequently from members, not moderators.
I am assuming you are talking about moderators here, since you said "closed", and the only people who can close threads are moderators.

Sam 04-27-2007 05:34 PM

I am guilty! I am rude and close their threads. You want to know why? I find it also rude if somebody we pick up in our community doesn't cares about our rules.
What would you say, if someone is visiting you in your room and don't cares about things you've ask him to do / not to do?

Crow 04-27-2007 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam (Post 1303605)
I am guilty! I am rude and close their threads. You want to know why? I find it also rude if somebody we pick up in our community doesn't cares about our rules.
What would you say, if someone is visiting you in your room and don't cares about things you've ask him to do / not to do?

I would kick him out, but hes also not paying to enter my room x]

Darlene159 04-27-2007 05:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Crow (Post 1303609)
I would kick him out, but hes also not paying to enter my room x]

Whether you pay or not, makes no difference. When you enter someone elses property, no matter what it is, you are required to follow the owner of that property's rules.

Cloven 04-27-2007 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Darlene159 (Post 1303610)
Whether you pay or not, makes no difference. When you enter someone elses property, no matter what it is, you are required to follow the owner of that property's rules.

Felt compelled to quote for the accuracy of this statement. This theory is just completely necessary no matter what venue it ends up applying to. I'd rather see a few feelings hurt than have chaos.

elite_master 04-28-2007 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Darlene159 (Post 1303610)
Whether you pay or not, makes no difference. When you enter someone elses property, no matter what it is, you are required to follow the owner of that property's rules.

Until the day people stop paying to enter that persons property because of poor management. :)

Darklux 04-29-2007 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Andy0687 (Post 1302574)
There is nothing wrong with being immature and having fun some of the time, and I guarantee my actions on the game dont reflect my actions in real life, so I dont know how you could make the comparison.

+ this game is still more or less for kids. So you can't expect anyone to behave mature in these forums.


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